You are building your reputation in the profession with every contact you make. Your mentor could be a valuable connection and reference. Once you have accomplished your goal communicate with your mentor that you are ready to end the relationship in a professional and courteous manner. It is in your best interest to maintain informal contact with your mentor as you build your contacts throughout your career. Here’s how:
- Express gratitude to the mentor for his or her time and contribution to your progress.
Example: “You have taught me X,Y,Z. I am grateful for your guidance and support.”
- Tell your mentor what goals you have accomplished with their help.
Example: “Thanks to you, I feel more confident with presenting to a group. I really appreciate your insights and support.”
- Suggest maintaining contact on an informal level.
Example: Would you be willing to hear from me occasionally in the future?”
- Offer your support to the mentor.
Example: “I would love to support you in some way in the future. Please don’t hesitate to contact me if I can ever be of assistance.”
- Suggest a focus for the final session. You might like to celebrate all that has been accomplished and have a more informal session. You could also ask for suggestions for future goals.
- Write a personal thank you note and mail it to your mentor within two days after your last session.